Finding Destiny

Lucky are the ones who've already found their destined partner. Or the ones who didn’t had the hard time to find them. On the second thought, was there anyone who were lucky enough to easily accomplished it? Just today, I received a wedding invitation from this couple who’re giving their utmost appreciation to me. It’s because I’m the reason why they end up with each other. I don’t know why I have this hobby of being a cupid and do the match making to the extent that some of my friends are already calling me a pimp. But you see, I’m really really good at it! Now, going back to my trash, I’ve realized that these couple didn’t had a hard time to find each other because an angel (ahem!) helped them to be together and their now getting married. So should I consider them as the lucky ones in finding their destiny effortlessly? I still believe in the balance of nature. Prolly they had an instant access to be together but they might have their ups and downs before they ended up deciding to get married.

How do we measure destiny? How can we say that we are destined to this someone? Time plays a major role to this and a lot of trial and error and testing waters. I guess no one can really say it in an instant that we are meant to this person. A lot of symptoms should be felt before we can say to ourselves that this guy/girl might be the right one for us. Remember, there’s the word “might”. This is when we will realize that you and this person are in sync. A lot of similarities. You even start to like even his/her dark side and all the flaws. Or if symptoms persists, you’re already having this mushy things like you can see yourself getting old with this person and finally, considering him/her as your great love. This is what I called, aimed destiny. We locked down our target as we feel these symptoms towards them. But then again, “might”. So best piece of advice is to always have a back-up plan to pull yourself together if in case it didn’t worked out.

To some who doesn’t mind too much about who they were destined with, fate lurks subconsciously. Serendipity. It can be a familiar stranger you always see in different places randomly. It can also be a curse that will always lead you back to this person no matter what the circumstances may be. It’s like putting the both of you together like a mouse in a maze on two different direction but at the end of the day, you still end up meeting together. You can’t justify if it’s still love but there’s this strong connection that you can’t disband yourself despite of the walls and the distance between the both of you. Simply, you can’t just let go of this person for a reason you don’t know. Is this what you called a destiny that’s been nourished by fate?

Thinking about the right person for us doesn’t mean that we could end up with them living in a happily ever after. Thinking won’t lead you to anything. You better do something before it’s too late. You don’t want to sing Katy Perry’s “The One That Got Away” whenever you will see or think about him/her right? It is also so depressing to think that not all people who were destined to each other end up being together. It’s what you called, reality. But hush now and don’t let it bring you down. Think about the good memories you’ve earned from this that will make you a better person for someone who’s prolly more suited for you.