I’m writing this post just to trash my thoughts in this Valentines celebration. Valentine’s day is just a date to express or rather exaggerate in showing how we love someone. But why wait for this day when you can do it in any day you want?
People who are single are treating this day as a one day stigma on their annual lives. Which shouldn’t be the case. Just because you are single doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy this celebration. Valentine’s day aren’t really made for couples. Well couples may have an easy pass on who can they celebrate it but for the ones who are single, we can use this day to show your gratitude to someone like your friends, parents or closest relatives. Erase the negative thought of envying couples you see who’re both wearing red on this day and stop wearing something black for yourself.
For couples, this day can put a big pressure and a lot of expectation for lovers. It’s the exact same polarity of being single but having the same wave lengths in terms of making it through this day. The hassle to book a nice restaurants or the best seat to a concert or even to cinemas. The extra present you would be thinking aside from the little things you give or do during your monthsaries. Talking about financial matters, this is no joke at all. But on a different note, always think that it’s the thought that still counts. Always, remember, this is just a date. If all fails during this day, doesn’t mean it’s the end of your relationship with your partner.
Different pressures around the air before or during this day can turn Valentines into Bad-lentines. But whatever it is that’s adding the tense on it, it’s just a state of mind. This is just one of the many crazy celebrations that humans created for us to loosen up ourselves from our boring lives. And to give more reason for us to spend our money.
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