Perfect, Forever… these two words that people really drools into just to achieve it, just to be it. Almost everybody would fight for and die for just to have it. But yeah almost… not all… not me.
It’s a given fact that nobody’s perfect, it’s just that people strive their best just to be close enough in that position. Same with the word forever. Everything dies/fades but atleast before it came to that point, some people will try to experience the "feeling" of living forever. Yeah been there done that and I must admit it really creates this amorous feeling in the air that surrounds you. Parang wala ng maling mangyayari na you could even say that evrythings under your control and all is in the plan. You can even feel like you have this certain power to move mountains na everytime you see people failing, you feel blessed na masasabi mo na you're one of the luckiest creature. Sobrang gaan ng feeling mo sobrang swabe. You can even describe it best as "Heaven".But the question is, how far can you go? How long can you sustain it?
Dito na papasok yung conflicts. After savoring the feeling, sooner or later you're gonna ask yourself the "what if" questions. What if hindi ko masustain? What if mawala yung spark? What if hindi ko ma-maintain? What if there's a dead end ahead this happy long journey? Well two types of people would take these questions differently. The first one would not care at all as long as he's enjoying the moment. Saka na lang isipin pag dumating na and enjoy muna "for now". Dito palang questionable na yung "forever". The second one would prepare himself on the worse case scenarios ahead of time. Pwedeng i-ready na nya yung sarili nya or umisip na sya ng mga maaaring di magandang kauuwian na halos ma-paranoid na. Would you still consider it as a "perfect" feeling then? Either way parehas lang na haharap yan sa word na "End". Prolly different tactics on how you're gonna take it but in anyway you have to accept that fact.
This is just my two cents, it may sound bitter but for me, the word perfect and forever in a relationship is just a mere delusion that most people loves to dwell into. May mga tao na sobrang strict pagdating dito. They tend to get mad because of the fact na gusto nila laging perfect ang lahat. But because of this kind of attitude, fights are being made that could lead into misunderstanding and worse is to a break-up. Meron namang iba na sobrang pasensyoso, di marunong magalit or hindi na lang nilalabas yung galit para wala ng conflict or gulo but still being misunderstood because of that. Ang sama pa eh kung kelan di ka na marunong magalit eh saka pa sayo idedemand dahil at some point daw eh healthy sa isang relasyon yung nag aaway. If you're like the first type of person that i've mentioned, then you failed to maintain perfection and forever, most probably you will try to be the second type of person na nasabi ko and vice versa. Kasi you might feel na if you change the way you are, baka maayos na ang lahat and you might get or redeemed both perfection and forever. Eh what if you've been into both ways but still you ended up the same? Ano na lang di ba?!?! The only consolation thought that you'll just get is masasabi mo na lang na siguro wrong person lang or wrong timing. Na prolly you're just not meant to be. But until when are you gonna take these kind of consolation prizes? Kaya nowadays, you can't blame people who's not into relationship. Yung iba pa-date date na lang, yung iba naman sex na lang. Most people are traumatized committing themselves for so many different reasons. But whatever it is, they tried to make it perfect like it's forever before they end up like that. Ang mahirap lang is when you met someone whom you think is the right one, that person is already graduated in failing many relationships. Na kahit ano pa ang gawin mo eh barado na ang utak at puso nya. Na in the end you might think that life is cruel and baka mag end up ka na lang din na gayahin sya. I really find it stupid but this is how the chain reaction is.
This is just my two cents, it may sound bitter but for me, the word perfect and forever in a relationship is just a mere delusion that most people loves to dwell into. May mga tao na sobrang strict pagdating dito. They tend to get mad because of the fact na gusto nila laging perfect ang lahat. But because of this kind of attitude, fights are being made that could lead into misunderstanding and worse is to a break-up. Meron namang iba na sobrang pasensyoso, di marunong magalit or hindi na lang nilalabas yung galit para wala ng conflict or gulo but still being misunderstood because of that. Ang sama pa eh kung kelan di ka na marunong magalit eh saka pa sayo idedemand dahil at some point daw eh healthy sa isang relasyon yung nag aaway. If you're like the first type of person that i've mentioned, then you failed to maintain perfection and forever, most probably you will try to be the second type of person na nasabi ko and vice versa. Kasi you might feel na if you change the way you are, baka maayos na ang lahat and you might get or redeemed both perfection and forever. Eh what if you've been into both ways but still you ended up the same? Ano na lang di ba?!?! The only consolation thought that you'll just get is masasabi mo na lang na siguro wrong person lang or wrong timing. Na prolly you're just not meant to be. But until when are you gonna take these kind of consolation prizes? Kaya nowadays, you can't blame people who's not into relationship. Yung iba pa-date date na lang, yung iba naman sex na lang. Most people are traumatized committing themselves for so many different reasons. But whatever it is, they tried to make it perfect like it's forever before they end up like that. Ang mahirap lang is when you met someone whom you think is the right one, that person is already graduated in failing many relationships. Na kahit ano pa ang gawin mo eh barado na ang utak at puso nya. Na in the end you might think that life is cruel and baka mag end up ka na lang din na gayahin sya. I really find it stupid but this is how the chain reaction is.
So instead of having high hopes in having a forever perfect relationship, mas ok pa na isipin mo na lang na there's always an end to everything. Not that you're giving up already on being happy with someone pero atleast mas alam mo na yung totoo na mangyayari. Na you don't have to think a lot of things to make it perfect and how to make it forever. As long as you know that you're inlove and your feelings are true, that's all that matters. In that way you can give it all without any worries. Kung sakaling hindi mag work out, eh ganun talaga eh, atleast ok na yung wala kang regrets of showing what you really are. And without these delusions, if ever it didn't work out, hindi gaanong masakit.
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