Sigh...lent

With all the issues banging your head, sometimes being silent says it all.  This is how most people can get out of their problems just like the corrupt politicians or some rumors and gossips of the celebs from the showbiz world. Just let time incinerate and turned it into dust. Because before you know it, they’re already focusing themselves on a different talk of the town.

Being silent in an aftermath is misleading. But seriously, we shouldn’t give a damn on people’s judgment. Especially the ones who doesn’t really know who we are. Very few can really understand why an individual chose to be quiet rather than exploiting the details of what really happened. Most people can already plot that it’s because your guilty of doing something that caused the damage. But you know sometimes, it can be true. People stayed quiet out of guilt. But some chose to be mute for they might be tired to defend themselves. Or maybe they just don’t want to argue or worse is that they’ve already ran out of words to argue. Or simply, they just don’t want to feel like living in a showbiz life sitting on  a hot seat and being grilled by people who is either really concerned about your situation or just tempted to gather the facts that they can get to forward to Gossip Girl. If you asked a person and he didn’t answer, it’s not because this person doesn’t trust you. Nor is not interested in sharing it with you. He might just rather be dealing his sentiments on his own. And if in case this individual still insisted, believe me, he/she is just after the gossip. A true friend will always say they understand despite of the silent treatment.

When you’re too tired to speak, it’s ok to just shut your mouth. Because sometimes, the more we talk, the more we commit mistakes. And most of the time, being uncommunicative can calm the fire and might give you a fresh start. We have to learn how to respect whoever it is in a wordless state because we really don’t have a clue how it might be noisy it is inside them that they’re currently dealing with.